Speed Dating: A New Approach to Dating

Speed ​​dating is a relatively new concept in dating. The idea is that it goes to a place that has 50-30 individuals of each sex, and you have a limited amount of time to talk to each person of the opposite sex. You need to make a quick decision if you want to see that person again, and fills your intentions in a form that you carry with you. Or at the end of the night or after the event is over, all you want to see again and who wants to see again (a "mutual match") will be given details of the person, and c 'then both to organize something different. Here are my suggestions:

When you go to a speed dating event, try to dress well, but do not overdo it. Shirt and tie or a suit or smart two-piece should do.

Chances are, you are very nervous! Many organizations help with this speed dating taking your money on you before you participate, so if you do not participate in the session, you have lost your money! Seriously, even if you are nervous to start, you will be seated after the first "dates". I was probably the worst you can imagine lots of nerves before my first time!

Realize that you do not have a "success". There are different definitions of success. The more experience you get, the greater success rate in terms of bringing together partners in the future you find what works and what does not. If you are unable to generate interest, it does not matter, just think how the night is gone, and try to see how you may have encountered. Have you become more experienced, which is in itself a success.

Try to make interesting questions. Do you really need to know what to do for a living at this stage? Chances are, if you ask this question, or not at all enthusiastic about their work, and curb your enthusiasm, or begin to upload as their work is good, letting your eyes glazing over! For example, the speed of a girl that I once called "elephants or monkeys?" It 'was a very unusual, and this girl has remained in my mind, while others have become rare.

Make sure you are aware of your body language and the other person, and try to flirt! A few minutes is usually long enough before being able to reach a person other than a handshake or a kiss on the cheek, but time is so short, you can try that.

One of the most important points that I found is that you only have a short time with each person, if you get someone really good in those first few minutes, trying to talk to them again during breaks and after Speed ​​dating is more. Perhaps the date of "NO" on the card? Remember, you have not checked yes on the form for the exchange of phone numbers, you can also choose to do at night!

If you are fairly new to the game and some people seem to be more successful than you, you look at them! Watch and listen to their interaction with others. These people are probably safer you are, and this is speed dating increases your confidence, because you can see what they do works.

If you are not particularly good at talking, a little 'of alcohol can help to loosen the tongue, but do not overdo it! Some Dutch courage is a good thing, but you will come across as very attractive if you start your speech speech!

Also, if someone tells you were before and had 15 of 20 matches, do not believe it! It 'very easy for people to lie or exaggerate. Do not let me tell you this story you ask?

Finally, you should be aware that what may lie even go as far as anyone to participate in the night have a boyfriend or girlfriend, or husband or wife. Some people may also have some fun ', some people may also have more sinister motives. Beware and be aware, especially if you're a girl.

I will speak briefly about my experience with speed dating. I had been out of the dating game for some time after a previous relationship. I spent three nights of speed dating, and in any case there were twenty girls that I had the opportunity to talk to. I do not have matches in the first session, one in the second and third, even if I do go out on dates with them, these people were not good for me. I enjoyed it, though, and most importantly, I developed my confidence! Remember, the trust has done.